Wednesday, January 7, 2015

Men Who Beat Up Their Wives/Girlfriends Should Try Messing With Someone Their Own Size

Many men treat women with respect and class.


Unfortunately, some men don't.  And some of these guys elect to treat their wife or girlfriend in a physically abusive manner.  Some of these men have hot tempers and decide to take their frustrations out on their significant other.


Then, to make matters worse, they blame their abusive behavior on the female that they like to bully.  Furthermore, they claim that they can't control their anger and can't control their desire to hit their wife/girlfriend.


A lot of these types of men end up having to go into therapy, rationalizing that they can't control their abusive ways.  Then the therapist will ask them, "If your wife/girlfriend was a cop, would you still hit her?" Or "If your wife were a martial artist, and you knew that if you tried to hit her than she'd beat you to a pulp, you'd you still hit her?"


One of my professors in college, a therapist, told me that asking these men these questions usually gets them to realize that they can control their physically abusive outbursts.


In my opinion, you can't always control how angry you feel.  However, you can control how you react to it.


So to all men who physically assault women on a regular basis, why not try messing with someone your own size and physical strength?  Hitting your wife or girlfriend isn't brave by any means, is it?

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